I want to make this thread as a space for people who are in long-distance relationships to talk, seek advice, gripe, the whole shebang. I was in an LDR for five years (now we’re living together and can smooch whenever we want!), and there’s a lot about it that sucks, more than just the distance part. People doubt your decision, you or your partner’s dedication, and are just generally condescending all the hecking time. But when you get off that bus/train/plane/boat and get to smoosh faces it’s the best thing in the world.
So complain about that stuff here, ask questions, or just talk about how worth it it all was in the end.